倾听是一剂良药(2)

编辑:高中作文网

  Each story is different. Some are detailed; others are vague. Some have a beginning, middle and end. Others wander without a clear conclusion. Some are true; others not. Yet all those things do not really matter. What matters to the storyteller is that the story is heard – without interruption, assumption or judgment.
  每个故事都是不同的。有些故事详细,有些却模糊;有些故事有开始、经过和结果,有些则天马行空,没有明确的结论;有些故事是真实的,而有些不是。不过,这些要素都不是最重要的。对讲述者来说,真正重要的是,这个故事要有人去倾听——不要打断,不要臆断,也不要去评价。

  Listening to someone’s story costs less than expensive diagnostic testing but is key to healing and diagnosis.
  去听别人讲故事比进行昂贵的诊断测试成本低得多,但它却是治疗和诊断的关键。

  I often thought of what that woman taught me, and I reminded myself of the importance of stopping, sitting down and truly listening.
  And, not long after, in an unexpected twist, I became the patient, with a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis at age 31. Now, 20 years later, I sit all the time – in a wheelchair.
  我经常去琢磨,那个老妇人究竟让我懂得了什么。放下自己的想法,坐下来真诚地倾听,我提醒自己要铭记这样做的重要性。而就在那次会面过去不久后,事情发生了意想不到的大扭转——我被确诊患上了多发性硬化症,成了一名病人。那年我31岁。
  如今,20年过去了,我需要一直坐着——坐在轮椅中。

  For as long as I could, I continued to see patients from my chair, but I had to resign when my hands were affected. I still teach med students and other health care professionals, but now from the perspective of physician and patient.
  我曾尽自己所能,继续坐在轮椅上去看病人,但当我的双手也出现症状后,我不得不选择退休。如今我仍然为医科学生和其他医疗专业人员上课,但现在不仅仅是站在医生的角度——还有病人的角度。

  I tell them I believe in the power of listening. I tell them I know firsthand that immeasurable healing takes place within me when someone
stops, sits down and listens to my story.
  我跟他们说,我相信倾听是味良药。我告诉他们,我亲身体会到,当有人停下自己的事,坐下来聆听你的故事时,会在你的身体里产生无法估量的治愈力。