In the case of such habitual differences, Wang says that as long as they feel comfortable with each other, there is no need to pursue uniform lifestyles.

　　对于这些习惯上的差异，王棋画说只要他们彼此感觉舒服，就没有必要去追求步履一致的生活习惯。

　　What bothered Wang more were differences in their outlook on life and the future. Studying hard and trying to improve her resume through social work and high grades, Wang thinks it’s important to have a successful career. But her French boyfriend doesn’t seem to care much about the future. “At first, I thought my boyfriend was lazy. He didn’t work as hard as me,” Wang says. Her boyfriend didn’t rush to find internships like many Chinese students.

　　最让王棋画困扰的是他们在对待人生和未来上的分歧。努力学习，通过各种社会实践和高分来完善自己的简历，并以此谋得一份好工作，对于王琪华来说这是很重要的事，然而她的法国男友并不这样认为。“刚开始的时候，我觉得我男友很懒，他不像我一样用功学习。”王棋画说。她的男友并没像很多中国学生一样急于找一份实习工作。

　　But over time, Wang learned to cut herself some slack and enjoy her leisure time, while her boyfriend started to pay more attention to the future.

　　而相处久了，事情却发生了转变。王棋画慢慢学会了自我放松，享受休闲时光，而男友反而开始更多地思考未来了。