1.Avoid Thinking You Have It All Figured Out

避免认为你已经搞懂了一切

Modern education has trapped us into thinking learning only takes place during school. Just because you finished high school and maybe have a college degree doesn’t mean you’re done learning about the world around you. There’s an endless amount of information and no matter how hard you try you’ll never consume it all. You don’t know everything, and that’s okay. The unknown is what keeps us exploring and experiencing new things every day.

现代教育已经让我们相信学习只发能在学校。只是因为你已经完成了高中学习，有一个大学文聘也不能说明你就了解了周遭的一切。还有很多信息，不管你怎么努力没办法全部掌握的。你什么都不知道，那也没啥。不知才会让我们一直探索，每天体验到新的东西。

2.Avoid Working A Job You Hate

避免从事你不喜欢的工作

It doesn’t matter how much money you make, what benefits you have, or how many years you’ve been working at the same place: if you hate your job, nothing will save you from your misery. This doesn’t mean quit right away, but the worst thing you could do at 30 is realize you hate your job only to find yourself still working there when you hit 40. It’s okay to change jobs or even careers..

能赚多少，有哪些好处，你在同一个岗位上干了多少年这些都不重要。如果你不喜欢你的工作，没什么能将你从悲伤中拯救出来。也不是说马上就要放弃但是最糟糕的就是你在30岁的时候就发现自己不喜欢但是到40岁的时候还是那样。换种工作，或者换种职业都可以。

3.Avoid Giving Up On Your Dreams

4 Things Everyone Should Avoid In Their 30s

不要放弃梦想

Just because you’ve surpassed the third decade doesn’t mean you’re too old to turn your dreams into reality. A common misconception is that only young people have unlimited potential to create something amazing that truly changes the world. The truth is plenty of people over 30 are changing the world everyday.

过了30岁也并不意味着你老到没办法将梦想变成现实。普遍的一个错误观念就是只有年轻人才有无限的潜力,创造一些令人惊叹的是钱,真正的改变世界。实际上很多超过30岁的人每天都在改变着世界。

Age brings experience and wisdom, which gives you all the more reason to go after your dreams and do what you’ve always wanted.

年龄增加人的经历，让人变得聪慧，这也能给你更多的理由去追寻你的梦想，去做你一直想做的事情。

4.Avoid Distancing Yourself From Friends & Family

避免疏远自己的朋友和家人

As the years pass it seems inevitable that we fall out of touch with family as phone calls and reunions happen less every year. If you’re 30 now, your parents are probably in their 50s or 60s. Life can be taken at any moment, and one of the worst regrets people have is not spending enough time with their family before it’s too late. The only way to change this is to be the one who keeps in touch. Be that annoying friend that gets everyone back together and talks to everyone in the family. People will remember you for that, and they’ll admire what you do.

随着岁月的流逝，似乎与家人电话的次数，每年团聚的次数不断地减少是不可避免的。如果你现在30岁，那你的父母可能已经50、60岁了。生活随时都可以有,最严重的一种遗憾就是没有和家人有足够的相处。改变这一情况的唯一办法就是做一个经常与家人保持联系的人。做一个能让每个人都回归家庭，与每个家庭成员都畅所欲言的人。人们会因此而记住你，他们会钦佩你。