It is not appropriate to use derogatory or offensive language to insult or disrespect someone, regardless of their gender. Using derogatory or offensive language to insult or disrespect someone can be hurtful and harmful, and it is important to treat others with kindness, respect, and empathy. If you are looking for ways to express your frustration or anger in a more productive way, you might consider finding healthy ways to communicate your emotions, such as talking to a trusted friend or family member, seeking support from a therapist or counselor, or finding healthy outlets for your emotions, such as through exercise or creative activities.